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Saturday, 12 May 2018

@Marraige Africa: My husband starves me of sex that’s why I fall sick frequently – Woman tells court

My husband starves me of sex that’s why I fall sick frequently – Woman tells court
A 35 year-old trader, Bilikisu Azeez has requested that an Igando Customary Court in Lagos dissolve her five -year-old marriage to her husband Olusesi Azeez , over s*x starvation which she claimed causes her frequent sickness.
Bilikisu had told the court that her husband refused her s*x for more than two years and that the doctors told her that is responsible for her visiting the hospital often for treatment.
She said, “My husband has been starving me of s*x since he married his youngest wife; he has turned me to an abandoned property.
“I have been falling sick in and out of hospital. During my last visit to the hospital, I was told that it was because I have not had s*x for long that is why I experience frequent sickness.”
“He refused to enroll our only child, who is over four years old in school and has failed to pay his medical bills; I always run to my mother for the hospital bill.”
Bilikisu, who also accused her husband of battery, said he had beaten her publicly which resulted in her fainting.
“There was joy, love and peace in the house until he came with another wife, who has been fighting me also.”
Bilikisu however, urged the court to dissolve the union so that she can move on with her life.
Meanwhile, the husband, Olusesi, in his defense of the allegations against him, admitted he starved the woman of s*x.
He said, “She once denied me of s*x and since then I abandoned her.
“Yes, I starved her of s*x, it is tit for tat because there was a day I entered her room to sleep with her and she left the bed to sleep on the floor.
“I made an attempt eight times to sleep with her, but she refused. So since that day, I just put her aside, after all, she is not the only wife I have,” he told the court.
The 45-year-old building contractor also consented to the dissolution of the marriage, saying he too was no longer interested in the marriage.
The court president, Mr Akin Akinniyi, while delivering the judgment said that it appeared that the estranged couple were tired of the marriage as all efforts to reconcile them had failed.
“Since both parties consented to the dissolution of their marriage, this court has no choice than to dissolve the marriage.
“The court hereby pronounces the marriage between Mrs Bilikisu Azeez and Mr Olusesi Azeez dissolved today.
“Both of you henceforth cease to be husband and wife, each of you should go on his or her separate ways unmolested.
“The court wishes both of you well in your future endeavour. Any squabble between both of you from now on shall be treated as criminal.
“Any violation of this judgment will be regarded as contempt of court and will attract imprisonment without option of fine,” Akinniyi ruled.

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